AN OPEN LETTER TO RUBY IN THE RUN-UP TO HER FIRST BIRTHDAY!!! | PLUS HER BIRTHDAY WISHLIST!!!

Lying close to you, feeling your heart beating,

And I’m wondering what you’re dreaming,

Wondering if it’s me you’re seeing,

Then I kiss your eyes,

And thank God we’re together,

And I just wanna stay with you in this moment forever.

Don’t Wanna Miss A Thing – Aerosmith

In the almost automatic decision – which didn’t feel like a decision because it felt so predictable and natural(!) – to write a blog post celebrating my kitten’s first Birthday on March 26th, I toyed between writing it as a little letter and writing a full-on, detailed piece about pets and mental health. In the end, I decided to do both! So, here’s Ruby’s letter and on the 26th the other post will go up…

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So, I was browsing Etsy for Mother’s Day gifts for the previous blog post (which you can read here) when I came across this incredible gift from the amazingly talented Paper Emporium which I immediately personalised and added to my basket as a gift for my Mum for Mother’s Day! It’s basically a print (which you can choose to have framed at an extra cost) and you type in a location, a time, and a date and then they print what the sky looked like on that exact occasion. You can obviously choose to use any sort of special date or anniversary, but I picked the date, time, and place where I was born. Then you can type in a title that goes above the star image (I put: ‘The Day You Brought Me Into The World’) and a message (I wrote ‘Forever Grateful For You xxx’) for the bottom of it. I was so proud and chuffed with this gift that I got in touch with the lovely Paper Emporium team and pitched the idea of a collaboration and they even created the exclusive discount code (BLOG30) for a whopping 30% off any of their items!!

A GIFT GUIDE FOR MOTHER'S DAY | IN COLLABORATION WITH ETSY UK

“Unconditional love is the greatest gift we can ever give.”

Amy Leigh Mercree

The Mother’s Day Gift Shop (etsy.com)

If you’ve read, I’m NOT Disordered for a while now, you’ll likely know that I actually really enjoy creating more light and fun content – it’s very obviously a really nice break from the usual, deep and overwhelmingly honest posts about my mental health. So, when I realised it’s Mother’s Day this Sunday (the 10th March 2024) I thought it the perfect opportunity to be able to put together this little Gift Guide in collaboration with Etsy UK – who have the most amazing variety of items for absolutely anyone and everyone who you would like to gift this Mother’s Day on their Mother’s Day Gift Shop (which you can visit here)…

HOW TO MAINTAIN YOUR SELF-ESTEEM AFTER SELF-HARM | SELF-INJURY AWARENESS DAY 2024 | IN COLLABORATION WITH PINTEREST


To mark Self Injury Awareness Day 2024, I’ve teamed up with Pinterest to utilise their incredibly massive host of images in tackling the topic of developing and maintaining a good, positive level of self-esteem after having utilised self-harm as a coping mechanism…

This piece of advice might seem a bit surprising to be coming from me after my post a few days ago on their huge failings and my subsequent, resulting complaints against the Crisis Team (if you missed it, you can read it here). In keeping with typical I’m NOT Disordered’s fashion though, I’m going to keep this bit honest, open, and real and start this bit by saying that I 100% recognise that psychiatric services and the various professionals who can be involved in a mental health crisis, aren’t always beneficial with self-harm…

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